Where Change Blossoms

Change starts when you accept that what you’re doing isn’t getting you what you want.

That cracks the door open for something else. Another way forward. But discovery only happens through not knowing. If you believe you’re a certain way, that your patterns will repeat, then they will. And that belief makes creating a new story impossible. But you’re already halfway there if you can see your patterns. How you think. How what you think leads to the same actions. How those actions produce the same results. How those results confirm how you think.

If you can see this cycle, that awareness is action in itself. It shows you why you’re in the position you’re in. And if you don’t change it, you’ve already seen the rest of your life.

But you’re always free to choose something else. And that starts here. Because change can only happens now. It doesn’t take time. It happens through insight. Free from all context. A space where infinite possibilities exist. Ground zero. When you see a belief is not a fact. This state of mind isn’t burdened by any idea you previously held about what’s possible. With this vantage point, with your back against the wall, you can see everything.

You can change how you show up in your daily life, your relationships, your job, your craft. But you first need to die to the idea of who you think you are. You need to recognize that who you are is in your control.

You can’t create something new from the weight of everything that came before it. Otherwise it’s a remix. It isn’t new. It’s informed by the past.

Thinking this way is what allows reframing to happen.

It’s where you can see the story of you clearly enough to step out of the dream you’ve been living in and write the next chapter of your life intentionally.

So where do you start? Here. Now. Because change only ever happens now. Yesterday, it was still now. Tomorrow, when you wake up, it will be now.

Now is where infinite possibility exists. For you and for your relationships.

Two people can only grow together when they release the baggage they’ve been carrying. When neither one is holding more weight than the other. When both start from the same place and are willing to look at this moment with fresh eyes.

Right now, you have power. You are free to create something new. You are free to create yourself. This moment will forever be the only place your future is shaped.

You can say something new. Do something you've never done. Contradict your old identity. Create proof that breaks your story.

And from there, a new world opens.

But only by being wrong and by not knowing can you move through this doorway into the life you want but haven’t figured out how to claim. This is the only honest beginning. Here is where change blossoms.